Their disengagement does not mean they’re disinterested, simply that they prefer to spend the time they have wisely and purposefully.
Their quietness does not necessarily mean ‘I am angry, sad, moody, unhappy or something is wrong’, it simply means that they enjoy solitude and time spent in Being and breathing.
Their perceived detachment doesn’t signify that they are cold or do not care, rather that they understand the ever-changing nature of this life; some things come; some things go.
Any sign of bluntness while at times appears harsh, is carried by love, for only love speaks the words you don’t always want to hear.
Their lack of conversation isn’t that there’s nothing to say, rather that they enjoy being with you without needing to fill the space.
They may stumble at times and lose sight of their power, yet this does not define their true character. They have a light so bright, yet buried so deeply within them that their deepest desire is to always follow this light and find it for themselves when the world around them falls dark.
When hurting, they may seem temporarily lost and absent. Truth is, they seek shelter within their heart and it’s in these moments you must know, it’s not that they are weak and cannot handle the world, rather that they feel the world so deeply and sometimes refuge is needed to grow through the pain.
At their core, they know the world challenges them so they may continue to rise. When they return, they walk with such strength and integrity that nothing can stand in their way.
The thing you should know about the lone wolf is that if you capture their heart, they will love you ever so deeply and fiercely.
If you happen to have them as your friend, they may not always be seen and heard or appear at your social events, but they will always be there when you need someone.
They don’t share their heart with everyone, so if one opens their heart to you and allows you to enter the most deepest places, know they trust you with their whole Being.
Written by Monica Kade
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